Back in the late 70’s I attended an in-service training
program for law enforcement officers and heard a presentation by a Federal
agent who was supposed to be an expert on officer survival. He told the story
of a group of Basque separatists in Spain who hijacked a train and threatened
to kill one passenger every hour on the hour until their demands were met. When
the first deadline came and went, one of the terrorists went to a passenger and
told him that he was going to be the first to die. The terrorist gave the
condemned man some time to prepare to meet his Maker. As the terrorist waited,
the victim turned to the passenger in the seat beside him and began giving the
other passenger messages to be delivered to his loved ones. The terrorist stood
over the victim listening to the man say his goodbyes and send his love to the
various members of his family until he could stand it no more. He walked down
the aisle, grabbed up another passenger, immediately shot the other passenger in
the head, and threw him out of the train.
The presenter explained that the first passenger narrowly
escaped death because, as the terrorist listened to him say his goodbyes, the
terrorist began to realize that the passenger was a human being. He killed the
second passenger quickly so that he would run no risk of realizing the humanity
of the second passenger.
The lesson I learned from this story was that we, as human
beings, have difficulty harming our fellow beings unless we can think of them
as objects rather than humans. Much of the evil that has been done in the world
has been done by those who think of those outside their group as objects rather
than people. We have a tendency to divide the world into “us” and “them.” This tendency
to divide our fellow beings into “we who are worthy” and “those who are not,”
runs deep in our history and is even seen in our primate cousins. At least
since the beginning of recorded history, and almost certainly before, human
beings have shown compassion to those in their in-group and savagery to those
outside. Men who were otherwise kind and compassionate could, with great ease,
enslave and try to exterminate those of other races. It was relatively easy
because they could think of the others as somehow less than human. Even today
we can see this attitude exhibited in the world all around us. I don’t need to
cite examples, just look at the headlines from today’s paper.
We in America have risen above all this, however. We believe
in, not the brotherhood of man, but the more politically correct siblinghood of humanity. If you really think that, I want to talk to
you about some oceanfront property in Arizona. We aren’t as homicidal as some groups
in some other parts of the world, but we can be incredibly callous and abusive
toward our fellow beings in other ways. The financier who bilks thousands of
victims out of millions of dollars in a Ponzi scheme, the CEO who ignores
glaring safety issues to sell dangerous products to the consuming public, the
politician who thinks the best way to stay in office is to confiscate the
property of the few voters who have and give it to the many voters who don’t—all
these people and many more like them can nonchalantly harm others because they
do not fully appreciate the humanity of their victims.
Psychopaths differ from normal people in many ways, but I
think their most salient difference comes in how psychopaths relate to others—to
a psychopath another person is just a thing to be used. To most of us, other
people are humans to be loved, respected, and dealt with fairly. But far too
many among the normal extend full humanity only to those within their circle.
Those outside the circle are either objects to be used or second-class citizens
to be despised. We aren’t psychopaths, but we often display psychopathic
traits. Many of our most popular contemporary television shows (“Survivor,” for
example) applaud and reward psychopathic behaviors such as lying, betrayal of
trust, and exploitation of others.
This modern tendency to celebrate psychopathic behaviors
might well be the death-knell of our society. There would be a lot less
injustice in this world if we could all connect with all our fellow beings at
least as well as the terrorist connected with the first passenger whom he
spared—we might not all love each other, but we would at least shy away from harming
each other.
I think that the first place to start in weaning ourselves
off of psychopathic behavior is in national politics and popular culture. If
the two major parties can step back from demonizing each other; if the major
news networks can refrain from portraying every politically incorrect group as
odious villains; if we can all display some compassion for those with whom we
disagree—in short, if we can all recognize the humanity of our fellows, maybe
we can keep this great country of ours running for at least another two hundred years.
There is a sadness to psychopathy. I was reading interviews of Ted Bundy before he was executed. He was always surprised to realize, after he killed somebody, that people actually noticed that the person was missing and seemed to care. He never quite "got that", because he never really would notice if people around him were missing. There was just no connection there. Upon reading that, I thought it must be such a blank, empty feeling to live like that. And of course, as you say, it makes it easy to kill others. They are seen as just "stuff" around you.
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